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If you were alive in 2001, then there is no doubt you have heard of the movie "Legally Blonde" with Reese Witherspoon and how she plays the role of Sorority girl turned lawyer! Just a few short years before the release of this mega-movie hit, a tv show called "Judge Judy" was launched in 1996 featuring a real judge, taking real cases on a long tv show, in a no-nonsense kind of way. Both of these roles are Hollywood depictions of how Judges and Lawyers act, but it is actually phenomenal how real both of these portrayals are when lived out by everyday women, in everyday life!
To Respond like Elle Woods or Judge Judy!?
That is the Question?
Both of these ladies are POWERHOUSES and Sheroes in my eyes, but I also know that Balance of certain aspects of these personalities is what I strive for everyday as a Professional Woman! Viewing other Professional Women around me, I have noticed that some of us can get stuck in either "Timid" Toy Poodle / Chihuahua mode or "Vicious" - Matter of Fact Pit Bull - Doberman-Pinscher mode! Both of these personality modes are extremes that will leave you unfulfilled in the end when it comes to your desired results. At least it has NEVER ended well in my experiences of trying to solve my problems using these 2 extremes! And so lies our dilemmas!
One was being too nice at times and letting people feel in control by walking over me or just biting someone as hard and quick as I can, leaving them confused and scared before they can react or respond. Both approaches seemed to work to me until I understood that they are totally not necessary everyday in every situation!
Quick Law of Attraction Tip:
Remembering that the universe doesn't differentiate between good or bad energy, just the energy that you focus on most!
This is a good little reminder to stop living
in a particular counter-productive energy or mood all day! The consequences can be undesirable to say the least, but again, your Angels want to remind you the Free will is a thing and so is the Power of Choice! So CHOOSE Wisely!
Also, every transmission of energy is reciprocated back from the Universe in the form of positive or negative energies - also known to some as karma. This energy will definitely be faced at some point, so brace yourself when you slip and send out the negative energy! This is when you feel like jerks are a relentless and never-ending part of your day!
Try to be patient and utter the mantra - "This too shall pass" And so it is ... Amen
Now I am not saying that it is not good to walk around the disaster and literally "kill them with kindness" but if you do it all the time, you become disconnected with your Courage and create blocks in you Solar Plexus, which is where your Ego and Gut Feelings take place. Definitely not a place you need more challenges! On the other side of the coin, you will create a similar block here if you continuously "Tell People" how it is and don't take time to listen to the other side of the story! This creates one to not have a FULL view of the situation, but rather a personal assumption! Assumptions broken down means ~ Well .. you know what it means! lol
Elle Woods may act like she is a blonde - an air head most of the time, but she is actually REALLY smart and knows how to use this as her super power to get things done! I can relate to her demeanor I think because I am a Pisces and a huge trait of Pisces's is to Daydream about 80 percent of our day and work in our current reality the other 20 percent. Most other spectators will judge us and criticize that we need to come back down from space and snap back into "REALITY" ... But what is Reality, Truly? Everyone has their own perception and each is like a box of crayons, colorful and vast or broken and grey.
This statement can be super devastating for a Pisces or other creative genius that is inadvertently manifesting their destiny in a way that makes no sense to others! Reality for Pisces & other Creatives is a daily movie with daily characters playing their roles and lots of times, we don't feel acknowledged for the Role we play in our daily lives and simply get frustrated and start to react!
Only time I feel it is really necessary to help someone snap out of it is when they become Judge Judy to themselves! This is when our thinking becomes rigid and we view current situations in a way that is very narrow and not expansive of our Right side of thinking. When we embrace our Judge Judy side non-stop, we end up also embracing our Left brain way of thinking and become very logical and sometimes too critical of not only others, but ourselves!
So, who have you been like this past week? Elle Woods or Judge Judy? Or maybe you have an opposite issue and are unable to channel either one of these personality energies into your life!? Maybe you have been feeling underappreciated and not taken seriously in the past week or feeling like if you are NOT acting like Judge Judy in your life that everyone around you will simply take advantage of you!? Both are equally as perplexing and seemingly dreadful ways of having to participate with others on a daily basis!
Balance of Mind-Body and Soul is the Key to not living out these unhealthy and unbalanced
ways of solving problems that come our way.
Take time today to take an extra 5 mins!
Cancel that draining interaction that is in no way beneficial to you, but rather the other person!
Take time today to set your Boundaries and Intentions! Everyday you wake up, you have a chance to participate or vacate!
Feed the Good or wallow with the Ego and Feed the Judgmental mind and Fear of the unknown?
Which one shall you choose?
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